This may well be both high schoolish and U, so please
I am fortunate to have had a great NCT group, and we talk a lot online and whenever possible in person. With most of us now having 2 or 3 kids, this is unfortunately not often any more!
We now catch up as a group every month or two for dinner or afternoon tea and one of the group always invites 2-3 random other mums she knows from elsewhere. I understand wanting all your friends to be friends - but frankly with 3 under 5 and busy work and social lives I have enough trouble keeping in touch with my old friends as it is, and am starting to resent getting stuck at the end of a table making small talk to a stranger (however nice) for a whole dinner when I really want to strengthen my ties with old friends, and have organised a babysitter for the privilege!
As often the unofficial organiser I leave the invite lists open so people can bring partners or friends from our extended group - WIBU to speak to the friend? Or should I shut down the invite lists and lose the flexibility? Or should I stop being a big baby and just suck it up
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To ask my friend not to add ransoms to our catchups?
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CustardFromATin · 31/07/2014 05:10
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