I am typing on here to keep my thumbs from sending a text that will act like a nuclear bomb.
Getting married in 3 weeks. Hen night booked two months ago. Today one of the bridesmaids has decided she's not going, instead she's going out with her new flatmates. She is the grooms sister!!
As if that's not bad enough, she lied to me and said she couldn't get it off work. Ha! So even she knows that she's in the wrong, or else why lie.
I want to text her and ask why is she even being bridesmaid when she has no interest in the wedding, won't even go to the hen do.
I probably am being a bridezilla. But its hurtful and its hard enough organising everything without a bridesmaid of all people doing this so close to the wedding. And in her text message she's worded it so it sounds like we are even putting her out expecting her to go to the wedding. But if I even say anything I will end up being the one in the wrong, so I have to just grit my teeth and smile through it.
And breathe.
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I need to take a deep breath and calm down because I refuse to be called a bridezilla
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PandaFeet · 28/07/2014 19:17
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28/07/2014 19:28
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