Interesting (!) conversation last night where I was talking to friends of ours who all also know another couple we know and were asking after them.
I said that the wife of the pair was struggling somewhat as her husband is a lazy fucker does literally nothing around the house. He doesn't wash up after dinner or iron his own shirts or clean the loo or anything. He does do DIY stuff though, just not any cleaning.
Anyway, general consensus among the group, other than me, was that as she doesn't work at all and her child is school age, her job is to do all the housework and her dh shouldn't have to lift a finger. Even dh piped up in agreement. I was pretty horrified tbh.
All of us in this group are ft working parents who split chores evenly. I have to admit I was pretty shocked that they all agreed that a sahm of a school aged child has to clean up after her husband has had a shit, but there you go.
For balance, they did all say that if the genders were switched the se would apply, so not necessarily a sexist attitude.
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To wonder if a sahm should do everything?
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EleanorHandbasket · 19/07/2014 14:04
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