History between me and DP is rocky to say the least. He's sarcastic, verbally abusive and has been known to play mind games.
We've been getting on well these past few months but this past couple of weeks he's been a bit off with me. Avoiding me (messing around 'doing things' in an evening rather than sitting with me like he used to). Not talking much. Rare sex (and lack of foreplay which again is unusual).
Now - A few days ago I said to him "was that boat race on today?". He just carried on messing on the ipad and didn't reply. I said "DP?" ... no reply. I nudged him, he said "umm?" lazily. It was obvious he'd heard me. I said "the boat race in town, was it on today?" - after an odd delay he said "yeah, think so." I said "did you not fancy it?" (he usually goes) and he ignored me. I asked again - silence (he's sitting right next to me btw!) I snapped "why are you ignoring me???" and he replied "I'm not, no was too busy for the boat race, didn't fancy it."
So that was the first example. He's done it a few times since. It's deliberate. And it's obvious. Now that I've shown it riles me, he'll do it more. It's a new thing for sure, he NEVER done it before the example above. AIBU to think he's discovered a new game to play?
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To think this "new thing" he does is just a new mind game he's discoved?
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ShitShaveOrHaircut · 24/06/2014 13:22
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