I married my DH six years ago, we had a very small wedding, just us and a couple of witnesses. It was what we wanted at the time, I'd just had DD and money was a bit tight. Now things are different and I really like the idea of having a vow renewal and inviting 30-40 friends and family, basically the wedding we didn't have first time around.
A friend of mine has offered to help with the planning and when I told her that I was going to put "no presents please" on the invites she was horrified. The thing is we're not a young couple setting up home who need lots of household things, we have what we need, and we live in a small flat so don't have space for any more knickknack type things either, but I know if people gave us that kind of thing I wouldn't have the heart to get rid if it.
My friend thinks that people will want to give presents, and even if I put no presents they'll bring them anyway, so I should ask for vouchers, which I'm really not sure about. I know that grabby bridezilla bashing is a bit of a theme on MN, but my friend got me wondering if there was another side to this and that people would get offended if they were told not to buy presents, and wonder if it is ever appropriate to ask for vouchers.
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MizLizLemon · 13/06/2014 19:03
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