Long term poster but have name changed.
I was recently involved in an accident on my way to work. Thankfully I was not really seriously injured, but it was serious enough that I was taken to A&E in an ambulance and I sustained some injuries that still have not healed (the accident was a month ago) so I have been in some discomfort for the last month since the accident, not to mention that it has shaken me up a bit so I have been feeling a little down.
As I say, I am very lucky that my injuries are basically just superficial and will fully heal in time and there should not be any lasting damage, so I am trying not to make a mountain out of a mole hill, for example I went back to work as soon as I could and have just got on with things.
When the accident first happened I told my family and close friends, and all my friends sent me the usual "oh no sorry to hear that, get well soon" kind of message back. However, since then not one of the six or seven women who I would consider to be my close friends have bothered to call or text to check how I am. Not one text in a whole month.
The wife of one of DP's friends (who I haven't known very long) popped round with some flowers and I was so touched I almost cried. It was so thoughtful of her and completely unexpected, it really meant such a lot to know that someone cared. My Mum, MIL, DP and my boss have also all been really sweet.
AIBU to be a bit upset that none of my "close" friends have bothered to get in touch? I like to think I am a thoughtful person myself, and I would always sent a card if one of my friends was very sick or injured.
This has made me think I should re-evaluate my friendships a bit, and perhaps focus a bit more energy on the lovely lady who popped round with the flowers who is not someone I really know that well, only via our partners.
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Whyisitalwaysraining · 07/06/2014 12:32
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