A few months ago I confided something to my best friend and asked her not to tell anyone.
A comment made to me this this morning by her DH indicated to me that she had repeated to him what I'd said.
I just got off the phone to her and she openly said that yes she had told her DH but didn't think that would be a problem as her DH wasn't just 'anyone' in her eyes and they tell each other everything. She said had I specified that I didn't want her to tell anyone, including her husband, then obviously she would never have said anything to him. She told me she thought it was normal for married couples to share and that it was strange that I was surprised they had been discussing me.
It wasn't a major secret or anything horrific so I'm not overly annoyed at her, I do know her husband quite well and this won't affect any of our friendships or any thing, but I still feel a bit confused.
Would you share with your husband something you'd been asked to keep quiet about just because he's your husband and "that's what married couples do"?
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Writerwannabe83 · 12/05/2014 07:35
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