Ok it's a wee bit more complicated than the title suggests .
Dd is making her first holy communion tomorrow . We got the date in September (made by the bishop nothing we can do) and it turned out it was the day after DHs 30th birthday . So we decided to have a wee "do" after the mass in a hall nothing massive just close family and friends , then after that head into town to celebrate DHs birthday .
So about 6 weeks ago DHs best friend tells us he is having a 30tb birthday party but not the weekend after his birthday , the following Friday instead . Which is DHs 30th and the night before DDs communion .
Everyone said they would still go to the communion . And now today has arrived and DHs friends have started texting him saying "sorry mate won't be able to make the communion tomorrow"
I wasn't going to go to the party anyway because I've got too much to do tomorrow , but now dh is thinking no one is going to come to DDs communion tomorrow because they'll be too hungover from tonight , and it's making him not want to go tonight .
(Ps last weekend was DDs birthday and they didn't bring their DDs to her party because they were out celebrating his birthday . Which is but not even a text to say they weren't coming or to say happy birthday)
So , would dh be unreasonable not to go tonight ? I know they can have a party any day they want it's not like we have dibs and he wasn't bothered at first at all but now it's came round I think he's just a bit gutted .
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olaflikeswarmhugs · 09/05/2014 13:45
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