I have a 3 yr old DD. She used to be very shy and has recently found her confidence with people.
She will quite literally now talk to anyone. She wants to be everyone's friend and thinks that people in the street were just put there for her to be friends with.
Part of me loves her innocence - If we are standing somewhere she will talk to work-men, ask them what they're doing and why. If she encounters children she immediately waves and says hello and wants to be friends with them. She even says people are her "best friend" after talking to them for a minute or so (the best friend thing is recent, she must have heard it somewhere).
Another part of me feels I must shatter her innocence at some point. At the park recently she talked to a girl and proclaimed "you're my best friend" with a big cheesy grin. Said child responded with a "No I'm not!" and blew a raspberry at her before running off. Luckily she didn't seem too upset and just said to me "That's NAUGHTY!"
I know that she needs to learn not everyone wants to be her best friend....and also that some people may find an inquisitive 3 year old rather annoying and unwelcome...I also want to teach her a certain wariness of strangers....but I don't know how. Is her behaviour unreasonable? Should I be correcting her?
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PaintedLady2014 · 02/05/2014 20:49
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