ExH and I have a 6 year old together and she knows I'm pregnant. ExH and I have been separated since her pregnancy and he's now married with another child. Dd is seeing him for the first time since finding out I'm pregnant tomorrow and I was thinking of giving him a call or text message to tell him the news first before she does. He has always been scornful of my marriage and I'd rather he have time to digest the news rather than dd see his probably unimpressed reaction, which I think (hope) he'd have the decency to hide from her as she's very excited.
However my friend said I'm being unreasonable and it's nothing to do with him, that sharing the news with him 'especially' by making a call is disrespectful to my husband and makes it seem as though I'm apologetic for it I figure it's something that will affect our dd massively so right to tell him. Aibu?
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Cleohatra · 29/04/2014 21:15
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