I have a friend who I hardly see any more apart from quick chats in the street, but we were briefly close about a decade ago or so. He is my facebook friend and we also have a lot of mutual friends.
Anyway, he is constantly posting about his grand mission to contact his DD, who is a young teen. Apparently the last time he had any contact was when she was a toddler. When I knew him well I was very young, so his story about having not seen his dd for a couple of years because of his terrible ex was taken at face value, but now I don't think it rings true.
As far as I can tell, the DD lives somewhere in the uk with her mum and stepdad, and well as some new half siblings or something. He has got hold of some recent photos of her on what looks like a happy family day out and keeps posting them up with poems or messages that he wants people to pass on to her. Every now and again he finds her on youtube or other social media and gets all his friends to inundate the profile with messages 'from him' in the hope she will get in contact, then gets really annoyed when the profile is taken down. He keeps talking about all the diaries he has kept for her for when she turns 18 and they are reunited.
She's possibly not in the uk but I don't think he's even sure.
Everyone keeps posting messages of support on his wall about how much he obviously loves her and what a bitch the ex is, etc.
Doesn't ring true, does it? I don't want to go wading in because I don't really know any of them, but I've hidden his updates and it makes me uneasy whenever it is mentioned by mutual friends.
Or is that a thing that could happen?
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Brittapieandchips · 25/04/2014 10:39
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