I'm 10 weeks pregnant and ds is 15 months old. I have no issues with my pregnancy, iron levels fine, no history of early labour.
I went in for my first midwife appointment this week and all was going fine until I mentioned that I was still breastfeeding ds.
The midwife said I really must stop and he will be terribly jellous whilst the newborn feeds and he will steal all the newborn's milk.
She contradicted herself as she said the advice on breastfeeding was to exclusively bf until 6 months and then bf alongside other food up to 24 months, she said that advice didn't apply to me as I was pregnant.
She said that it was best if I stopped breastfeeding and I had to see it like giving up a bad habit for the best of the baby, she said it was just like giving up smoking (I have never smoked so I have no idea about giving up smoking)
I have looked into feeding whilst pregnant and I have mostly found positive stories. I know there is a chance ds will self wean and I know that if my pregnancy becomes high risk I might need to stop, but I can't see any reason to stop now.
AIBU that she likened breastfeeding to a bad habbit such as smoking? It made me feel like she thought that it was something I did to fufill a selfish need.
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To be anoyed that my midwife likened giving up breastfeeding whilst pregnant to giving up smoking whilst pregnant?
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ikeaismylocal · 05/04/2014 21:28
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