They are 4 & just 7. I was an only child and, until the age of 12ish, always wanted a sibling. For a while last year they seemed to play really well together, but now, as they get older, it seems they have less and less in common.
It is so frustrating in that ds2 seems to go out of his way to dislike anything that ds1 likes and takes great delight in refusing when ds1 asks him to play. Ds1 for his part seems determined to have ds2 play with him when he can see that it's not going to happen - like some sort of masochist .
At the moment, it seems all ds2 wants to do is sing along to Horrible Histories female-sung songs while wearing a dress, and all ds1 wants to do is whine that ds2 won't play with him and that he's lonely, or wants to play things like chess that require require adult help.
Dh has MS (is pretty well atm but tires pretty easily), is working from home while being a SAHD and has a poorly df in another city, and I am a f/t teacher so time and energy are not plentiful. In addition, ds2 is still recovering from a fractured leg so is not completely mobile.
I don't know - am just finding this stage of parenting tough and wondering why the two of them don't get on better. What do people who know more about siblings think?
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lecce · 04/04/2014 20:11
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