AIBU the first thing was oh was hold when he got married as with all the siblings he would get a deposit for a home as have the other siblings
How it workes in his family after the wedding his dad phones for a chat this did happen however oh failed to foresee that his mother dissaproves so after the offer about two hours later I presume after his dad had told his mum about the chat she rung and reteacated the offer *please note this is not money we asked for
Things pretty much went down hill from there and we have sought to save the money ourselfs however living in London and trying to save is difficult we figured we could move out of London and afford a family home however Due to my son being in year 10 and doing GCSES it would be crule to move him now so we plan to wait until he's finished also we would have save that little bit more
Roll on give years since we were married now go get a promotion and we have a little baby we recently went to see in laws so they could meet the baby and they offered us a despposit again on a home what they offered us would not be enough to get a home in London even with what we have saved , we did explain that were happy to move out of London but due to ds we have to wait and she's basically told us take the money now and buy in London or you get noting and we won't be offering again when we can actually move in 18 months when ds finished school
I said to oh I can't understand why they won't realise how expensive London is espically when they have 2 flats in London which have gone up 12% in value in the last year alone ffs
I told oh that he should tell his mother thanks but no thanks and that we will make our own way I can't take the stress any more oh was very up set the first time to have a offer only to have it retracted and then to be offered again only to be told take the money now or you can't have it at all espically when were not in a position to buy now with the issue of ds education AIBU to be pissed off
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Fusedog · 03/04/2014 14:17
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