I have had a pain in my stomach/groin area for about a week now, felt very tender and sore to touch, painful to urinate etc.
Yesterday I couldn't get out of bed due to the pain but knew work were short staffed, so got up & got myself showered (eventually). Dh kept saying if you're not well, don't go to work.
He works night shifts & had been off on Sunday night so had normal hours of sleep. He took children to school.
I left to go to work but realised quite soon that I was in too much pain.
I ended up in A&E diagnosed with both kidney stoned & chronic constipation.
I was discharged after 7 hours with lots of osinkillers, a referral for a scan & the instructions to rest at home & return if the pain continued.
So once home, I lay on sofa, took pain killers & had a doze. Children were home from school & needing dinner. Dh went. To. His. Bed.
He said he had to start work @ 11pm & needed a rest. I said dinner was needed. He went to bed & got up on time to play football. (Dd is 13, ds is 3 years younger, so not babies)
I thought at the time it was selfish of him, even knowing he had to work nights ( his shift was from 11pm til 3pm)
He came into bed when he finished his night shift & complained that I had been farting all night & our room stank! (Bear in mind doc give me meds to make me poo - which hasn't happened yet!)
Anyway, alarm went off at 7am, I tried to get up but pains put me off, dh started moaning & groaning that he had a headache and stomach ache & couldn't get up either.
He did eventually as I really couldn't.
I have since moved to the sofa to indulge in my own self pity, he is back in bed to sleep for the rest of the day as he has to work for 3 more hours later.
I sound bitter & angry, I am, but AIBU to be frustrated at him?
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EvaBeaversProtege · 01/04/2014 08:51
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