My LB is 4 and in reception. I have always made a point of never making food an issue. I don't force him to eat if he doesn't want to. I want him to learn to listen to his body. We all eat the same meal every evening and he eats a wide and varied range of foods. Fish, olives, etc. If he doesn't do well with dinner he isn't allowed crappy snack foods but he is allowed access to the fruit bowl at all times. He isn't a fussy eater at all but there are things he doesn't like including pasta (weirdly) and salad vegetables. I ask that he at least tries new things and I'm happy if he tries. He is not much of a lunch eater. He generally fills right up at breakfast (2 bowls of cereal or a sausage sandwich or similar) kind of grazes in the day and we have dinner at around 5.
Since he started reception in September I have been spoken to on a few occasions about him not eating lunch. They say he isn't really eating much at all and they're worried. I said not to worry as he has a good/big breakfast and I don't force him to eat at home. I offered to send packed lunch incase it's the food that's the issue and apparently it's not really allowed unless I write to the head?! I have tried having a chat with him about eating more at lunch time but I don't want to push it too much.
At the most recent parents evening the lunch issue came up again and it turns out they're eating really early (11ish) which to me explains why he isn't very hungry. He also comes of school ravenous!
Anyway, I always ask him what his best part and worst part of his day was on the way home and today he said lunchtime as if they've not eaten they have to sit at a different table and finish whilst everyone else goes out to play. I can't stop thinking about this now. I'm his parent and I've never forced him to eat, I just don't agree with it! I feel like there's a constant pressure on parents about kids eating too much or too little. He is average height and weight, sleeps well, is alert and active. I'm not worried so they have no reason to be.
Should I go in and have a chat with them or am I overthinking it? I've asked my partner and he thinks I'm making a mountain out of a molehill.
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youaremychocolatecake · 01/04/2014 00:58
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