9 yo has just gone to bed sobbing her heart out as she forgot to make me a Mother's Day card. Apparently she got a few bits together to do it with, but then forgot. Now, I know she has for me a little something at the shops today as she and he sister went on a little secret mission when they were out with me earlier. So she didn't totally forget- and I have told her what a thoughtful kind girl she is, and that people can do all kinds of things for Mother's Day- not necessarily a card.
AIBU to think that DH should have checked that the dds had got Mother's Day sorted, and maybe supervised it a bit, given that dd is very disorganised and needs a million reminders to do things like homework and music practise.
I just feel sad that dd was so upset and that she thinks she's let me down, as the card was an important thing for her.
And I feel cross that DH didn't get involved with it - not because I want a big fuss, but because I want the dds to feel that they have marked the occasion in a way that feels right to them, rather than feeling that they have fallen short ( not that I think that at all, but dd is feeling bad still).
I think DH helped her customise a note-let from the cupboard, but this is not ideal at 9.30 pm when she's crying her eyes out.
AIBU? I do so much organising for everyone's birthday, for Father's Day , Xmas...AIBU to expect DH could've supervised this? Or at 9 yo do you just leave them to it?
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PandaPie · 29/03/2014 21:49
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