Dh just texted that his brother A, has offered to take us all out to a very posh restaurant in town. He has said yes, and would love me to come.
I haven't spoken to A since he lost his temper on a family ski holiday and slapped dd who was 14 at the time, and don't like him at all. He apologised profusely to my dd but said nothing to me, and I've not seen him since.
Anyway, I texted back that I had hoped we'd do something nice (his mother has dementia very badly and has no idea what day it is or where she is,sadly, and is also becoming doubly incontinent), but said have a good time- I'm on a really limited diet I have been having flare ups of my IBS since my cancer surgery two years ago, and it's very limiting. Literally eat one bite and then run to the loo if it doesn't agree with me! I also said the kids were both up for it, but I'm not able to- I've missed so many family things through being unwell it's not unusual.
He just texted back "I knew I shouldn't have asked, all this family shit. I don't need more stress forget I even asked". He's obviously going, so I shall be on my own on Mother's Day, which is okay, but I'm a bit upset he said yes without consulting me, also since I got his mum a lovely sterling silver necklace with "mum" on it.
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Shonajoy · 28/03/2014 15:05
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