Sorry, it's not really an AIBUR but more of help me! What is the reasonable thing to to!
My 4yr old son has had a playdate all afternoon, they were playing outside and my neighbour was in her garden. She had just had a carpet fitter in to put a nice new cream carpet on her stairs (can you see where this is going??)... He had literally just driven off after laying it..... Well, she invited my son and her friend in to her garden to feed the chickens. After about 15 minutes of playing in there we ushered them out of the garden and my neighbour said that they must wash their hands now.... well before we knew it my son's friend ran in to her house (the front door was left open) and straight up the stairs!.... Mud & chicken shit all over the 10 minute old cream carpets! OMG I was mortified!!!!
She was laughing it off saying not to worry, when it dries she'll clean it off and it'll be fine. But I knew it bothered her... she mentioned about how her husband will be really bothered! (I'm dreading him coming home from work!) and what if it doesn't come off? I have offered to clean it for her, and to pay for a professional to come in.... Do you think this is reasonable to offer? It's just that I know my OH will go mad at me offering as he is not fond of my friend's little boy as he's a bit of a tearaway at times, plus I'm on mat leave & have no idea how much it's going to cost!...
I mentioned it to my son's friend's mum, but just sort of played it down as I don't think it's reasonable to expect her to pay the cleaning bill.
What do you think? What would you do if you were in either shoes? I am soo upset by this :(
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What's the reasonable thing to do?
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Moomey · 25/03/2014 16:38
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