It will be my first mothers day. I have a 6 month old DS. He's beautiful. I went back to work part time a few weeks ago. My husband has called me 'selfish and neglectful mother' said things like ' YOU think YOU deserve a good nights sleep' told me that if I didn't listen to him I'd have social services to listen to. He told me my parenting was in the same league as two people, one who has had children removed for battery, one who has a CIN 3 in place for neglect.
I have been spoken to like i'm not even a person.
All I have done is not follow his orders to9 take DS temperature in the night and give him calpol. He was asleep, and go back to work basically...oh and spend time organizing my social life via facebook. He hates facebook.
I have told him that buying me a mothers day card would be an insult. He has said it's not about him it's about DS. I kicked him out for a week, he is now home under the agreement, (his idea) that we dont discuss anything) and go to relate.
I am hurting so much and feel desperately sad and lonely and have no idea how to get past this. I cant sleep well and just feel like crying all the time. I want him to leave but feel i owe it to or marriage and DS to try and get through it.
I really dont want a mothers day card. Not that he has brought. Not after he has said those things to me.
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NiaceGuidelines · 23/03/2014 15:59
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