Disclaimer: I'm no expert on what most schools currently do to help shy children, but just going off what I have witnessed.
I was cripplingly shy as a child and adolescent and know that it has really delayed my career. DP is the same; and I'm worried about our DCs heading down the same path. I can't help but notice that all the more extrovert, confident and socially bright schoolmates of mine have all had a headstart on their careers as it were, and although DP and I were given all the best academic opportunities at school, we feel stunted by our early lack of self-confidence. Even now, I feel disadvantaged by my nervousness and lack of social polish in the workplace.
I know I would trade-off some of my academic success for more confidence to speak up for myself. And I would likely be far better off for it now.
With qualifications becoming less valued in favour of work experience (which IMO is greatly aided by a bucketload of networking), AIBU to think schools should be showing shyer children the benefits of networking and maybe having weekly interview skills lessons or similar, all the way from primary school upwards?
Or do they already do this, and just aren't plugging the benefits enough?
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To think schools should do more to boost our DCs' confidence
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phonebox · 23/03/2014 10:41
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