Me and dp have been together for almost 4 years and have a 2 year old ds with autism.
It seems when I get ill he never seems to be around, I had our first mc in Oct 2011 when my ds was 6 months and he went and played football with his friends 5 hours after I left hospital.
I had our second mc on Hogmanay this year and dp was out drinking.with his friends and my sister and stayed overnight at sisters.
Today I have had problems with my hyper-mobility syndrome and I could barely get down the floor to change ds nappy and lift him into bed dp knew this but decided he was going to a family party, I have no problem with him going to the party but he didn't tell me that ds and I were invited and now he has just called and is staying at his grans 40 miles away from where we live.
I guess I'm just mad that if my hip pain doesn't ease off and ds wakes up tonight or even in the morning I may not be able to carry him back to bed or change him, my ds can't understand any instructions but climbs everything.and I can't take my tramadol as they knock me out which if he was to wake up I wouldn't hear him and he would be up to no good.
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Babiecakes91 · 21/03/2014 22:20
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