Hi
My sister has asked can she stay with me one night next week. My mum has a hospital appointment to get some ( possibly bad) results and my sister needs to be somewhere were she can access wifi as her boss won't give her the day off so she needs to be able to work. I said this was fine as long as I wasn't in labour or it was the first day home with the baby. My sister was ok about it but made a point of saying she then wouldn't be able to attend the hospital with my mum. She can't stay with my mum as she doesn't have wifi so she couldn't get any work done. AIBU? I just really don't want anyone around if I'm in labour or just home with a new baby. I feel this is a private time for me and DH. But I know feel responsible for her not being able to attend the appointment. I know I might be getting upset over nothing as I have no clue when the baby will actually come.
My mum has fallen out with me saying I'm being unfair and she wants my sister to be at the appointment with her. I completely understand this but feel my sister should be able to make other arrangements without involving me. There are places she could go to use wifi for example.
Please be honest.
Thanks
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To not want sister staying?
46 replies
mostlyconfused · 21/03/2014 18:36
OP posts:
ITCouldBeWorse ·
21/03/2014 19:07
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.