She moved here about 18 months ago. A friend of mine said she'd met someone who was new to the area & looking to meet other mum friends with kids (both hv 2 kids under 5)so she put us in touch. I invited her round and we hit it off, lots in common. She even pointed these things out to me.
We were friendly for a while, she invited me to hers and her to mine and I had a few get togethers with other neighbours that I included her in. Our children play nicely together.
For some reason tho no idea why, she 'changed' around the time she witnessed my next door neighbour being burgled last summer and rang the police. When she was asked to be a witness she refused (her dad had had a bad experience or something). Ever since she told me this she's been odd with me though I barely made a comment on her decision so can't think why. Last autumn we were supposed to catch up but I had to cancel as my DD had a meningitis scare. When I explained her reply was odd "oh well whatever I can rest at home" no ref to my DD. Her amd her family came to our open house Xmas drinks in december & she was fine though I got the distinct impression she was trying to play up how close she is to some of our other neighbours. "You must come round for dinner!" But a large whiff of sycophant in it. Now barely a hello since.
Admittedly she has a 3 month old baby but she started being offhand with me long before that. Maybe she's just 'not that into me' lol which is fair enough but she's just plain rude now. Ignores me if we pass in the street or will just talk to my DDs. It's just weird.
AIBU to feel aggrieved as I went out of my way to welcome this person to the neighbourhood?
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GeoffLeopard · 20/03/2014 11:59
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