My DM has always looked after my 2DSs while I work (part time) To thank her for this and cover any costs I pay her £250 a month.
A year or so ago, I wasn't happy with this arrangement as although DM loves my 2DSs very much, she knows best and contradicts everything I ask/say e.g. I ask her not to give fizzy drinks - she still does but tells DSs not to tell me. That is just one example of many! So I decided to look for alternative childcare which would have cost me £50 more a month (£300) which I didn't mind paying.
When I approached DM about this she asked me not to as she relies on the money and would miss her grandsons. As DSs love going too, I left things as they were.
Now a year down the line and DM has hinted she is struggling financially and could I pay more? DH says we shouldn't be giving her anymore money as we already pay her during the holidays (I'm a teacher) when she doesn't look after them and all she does is stick them in front of the tv ( he has a point, she is not one for trips out or art projects)
AIBU to say we really can't afford to pay anymore
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Wikkiwoo · 18/03/2014 22:03
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