Dad visits once a week and sees dd2 for an hour, he sees dd1 once every 6 weeks in school hols as he can only come during school hours as he works evenings.
They both love visitors, run to the door with hugs and get games out to play, jigsaws, drawing pad etc and want to play.
Dad just wants to talk to me, he has no friends, if I tell him anything about kids or me or dp he listens but then talks about himself again. He only wants to talk about academia or his newest girlfriend. He doesn't really talk to kids, or ask them anything, and if he plays he does for 1 or 2 mins then says he's had enough and wants to talk to me so they wander off and play alone.
Dd1 just looks sad and goes but dd2 gets attention seeking after a while and asks for drinks, toilet, jumps around, anything for attention and I feel torn.
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To want my dad to interact with my dcs?
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muddyprints · 18/03/2014 16:18
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