Just received a phone call from my a parent of a 'friend' of my YR6 (11 y.o.) dd.
Apparently, his dd has been coming home upset about her friendships at school and my dc's name has been mentioned by this child as someone she sometimes has problems with.
I have also had this situation in reverse, however, have let it go as the dc sort themselves out, although 'friend' has a tendency to be a bit clingy and often tries to FaceTime 10 times in 2 minutes in an evening.
'Friend's' parent have contacted the school and asked for the girls to be on separate tables - although friend tried to sit with dd today and was reminded by teacher about her parents request. They have also spoken to the HT.
Now I know my dd is not perfect and from experience I know the friend is not either. Also am completely aware that 'friend's' obviously need for their dc concerns to be addressed.
However, AIBU to think that this matter should have been left to the school to deal with and raise with me if necessary. To me it appears to be a 'girls of that age' issue with both girls at fault to a greater or lesser degree although obviously I am inclined to believe my dc.
Now I feel that dd is being judged by the school as I am not defending her by raising any of the issues dd has experienced with this 'friend'.
The school has not raised this matter as a concern with us, surely they would do if there was a 'real' issue?
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AIBU?
That this father should have left the school and the children to sort out their problems
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treas · 17/03/2014 22:01
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