DC is having a b'day party soon. We have invited one of DC's best friends who is no longer at the same school as DC.
Am also good friend with the mother. When told about party the mother accepted the invitation and they seemed to look forward to it. Now they have received the actual invite the mum has sent me an email saying the party would be too stressful for her DC and that with the child being stressed she would feel stressed and therefore she hoped we would understand that they didn't want to come and we could celebrate DC's b'day another time. We are talking about a party at our house with 5 other children, all aged 6, same age as her DC. It's not some big all out party with 20 children from another group where her DC would know no one at all. Her DC would not really know the other children but there are only 5 of them, and I've told the mum she can stay if she feels her DC would prefer it. Her DC is generally quite a confident child and when her and my DC play together her DC is the one who takes the lead and tells my DC what to do, in a nice way, but she has never struck me as the totally nervous kind.
Am trying not to be too miffed about this but deep down feel it's all a bit silly. My DC goes to parties where she doesn't always know everyone and she just has to learn to get on with it. Can't really understand why someone would come up with this excuse?
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scooterland · 17/03/2014 13:49
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