I am sick to the back teeth of being accommodating to people, being on time, listening to peoples' problems, answering texts promptly, being reliable and generally being a good friend to people, when I literally never get the same thing back from anyone.
I am expected to listen for hours to friends' moans and problems and be supportive but if ever I moan myself or talk about anything to do with me I just get a 'mmmm' back. People expect me to side with them and agree with them but no one is ever committal when replying to me if I ever have any issues.
I have some friends that just sometimes don't reply to texts, then get annoyed if I don't answer their texts immediately.
If ever I try to arrange anything with anyone, even just to pop to someone's house with a birthday present for them, it's met with objections and they seem to be as obtuse about things as possible and expect me to move heaven and earth to fit in around them.
WIBU to start treating people in the same way in which they treat me?
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To decide that, from now on, I'm going to treat people however they treat me?
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floraldora · 14/03/2014 10:40
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