Dh is going through shitty time at work. 12 hour days, working on weekends, dealing with complex stuff (he's the boss).
So I'm keeping the home fire burning -dealing with kids, housework, working part time, saying nothing when he works late and I have to cook twice.
Fine, I have no problem with that.
Yesterday he starts being cold, distant and avoiding eye contact. Monosyllabic, grumpy and unwilling to converse.
I put it down to stress. Ask him what's wrong. He says "nothing".
Tonight I cook twice again, put tea on the table and ask him what I've done to offend him. He says "you could be more supportive." When I ask how, he just says, "You don't get it. I'm really stressed and you don't understand."
I did get annoyed, but AIBU? Is it ok for your dh to give you the cold shoulder when he's stressed at work? Is it me?!
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CeliaFate · 10/03/2014 20:12
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