I was in a pub garden on Saturday. It's a family country pub with an outdoor play area for the kids. It was really busy with the nice weather.
I heard a woman shrieking get here Thomas (not real name) repeatedly to her child. He eventually came over and she started shouting at him loudly enough for people to turn around.
Thomas looked at least 9 or 10 but probably more like 11 or 12. Apparently Thomas had got his willy out (her words) in front of everyone. And his mother proceeded to shout in front of everyone how disgusting it was, that people were eating, how dare he get his willy out. And made him sit down for the duration of their visit. Thomas looked pretty embarrassed and started crying but struggled to sit down after being told off and was crawling around under the table.
Please don't flame me as I have no real idea if this is normal behaviour for a child this age, my dc is still small. And perhaps the mother disciplined him well. But I can't help thinking that if that was my son I'd be very worried about that sort of behaviour and taking him straight home for a serious talk about appropriate behaviour and why he did it. Rather than shouting and screaming and letting the whole pub know. Even those who hadn't even seen what had happened.
Like I say please don't flame me, I did judge but I'm willing to accept I might be wrong, but I'm sure that isn't just normal playing up for such an older boy.
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pyjamaramadrama · 10/03/2014 16:48
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