Been with my boyfriend almost a year, serious relationship, planning on moving in soon.
At the beginning the "how many ex's" conversation came up, he told me 4 girlfriends, around another 10 flings/people he's slept with. No problem with this at all. (I'm a bit less but around the same)
Skip to last week...it basically turns out it's more like 50 and he didn't want to tell me at the start because he knew I'd be judgey. I'm kind of shocked and it's sort of changed how I see him a little (still love and adore him), I just didn't think he was 'that' kind of guy.
Am I unreasonable to be a bit judgey/annoyed/upset/shocked at this?
And of course I know you can't change the past etc, it's just sort of changed what I think of him, I never thought of him as a one night stand type, but obviously he is/was.
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To be totally judgey pants over this?
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OldCatLady · 07/03/2014 21:55
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