This will be dc3& for first two it was just me&dp. She's a bit of a worrier and I thought having her there would stress me out. Now it's dc3 though I'm pretty confident so wouldn't bother me as I realise your mind is fully on having your baby!
She's never put any pressure on me, simply said women at work have been there for grand children's birth&it would be amazing-she only ever mentioned this once so there was no pressure. I know she would love the chance though.
Dp is less convinced. He's a fab birth partner so don't feel I need extra support, just think she'd jump at the chance& would make our already close bond even stronger.
Dp just said he likes it just us& likes feeling unselfconscious when he has tops off cuddle with baby after!
Should I try to convince dp a bit or just leave it? Pretty sure this will be our last& feel like it would be an amazing gift (of sorts) to my mum.
Thoughts???
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Wiggy29 · 05/03/2014 21:20
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