I've been single since last summer when I ended a long term relationship with DD's dad.
It's as if I'm only really feeling "available" lately and in a place to be friendly/open to the possibility of something, in hindsight I've probably been stomping around with a face on me for the past couple of months but the reality of the men I've encountered has left me bewildered!
Just a few examples, my car window was smashed the other day and a neighbour was over chatting about it and we were joking that it could be someone with a vendetta, he then went onto say how he bets there's a queue of blokes dying to jump into my bed. It sounds like no big deal, I suppose it's not but I had never even spoken to him before.
I was chatting to another guy from my management company and we were really getting on and having a laugh and little mild bit of a flirt, I was saying I had a painter coming this week and how awkward I feel having someone in the house and I'd rather just go out and he said "I'll bet he'll be in your laundry basket sniffing your knickers" Ugh again, I barely know him.
Lastly, just last night I got talking to an old old colleague over at the shops who has lost loads of weight. I complimented him and was asking about exercise, gyms etc and he offered to bring me. I said Ah I'd think about it then he texted me saying he didn't want to say in front of my daughter but he thought I had a "rocking" body already, we were texting a bit and it basically resulted in him asking to come over for sex
I'm not a bit flattered by the way, I'm really offended actually that things have changed so much since I've last been single or that these men think so little of me that they think it's OK to talk about my knickers being sniffed (vomit) or blatantly asking to come over for sex!
I don't believe I'm giving off any vibe to invite this sort of stuff aside from being friendly, I feel like I've walked into this new world and suddenly I'm the massive prude!
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DomesticDisgrace · 04/03/2014 22:20
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