I know I'm being a bit unreasonable and petty - maybe even a bit entitled? but I'm still having a bit of a sulk.
It's my 30th this week. Dh asked ages ago what I wanted and I told I'd like jewellery a ring or bracelet, something I'd be able to keep forever as a memory. For his 30th a few years back I bought him a posh watch and had it engraved, I saved up for it and he loves it and wears it every day.
Dh hasn't bought me anything yet, I know he's not bothered saving anything and normally cost of gifts wouldn't matter - something cheap but thoughtful is much better than expensive but impersonal.
However, DH has gone off on holiday today with his friends (he'll be back for my birthday). I'm at home with the children. It's a one off for Dh, not something he does regularly and I'm happy for him to go and have fun.
I'm sulking a bit though because between flights / hotels / spending money he'll have spent around £500 on himself this week and because of that will maybe be left with £50 for a birthday present.
So, how unreasonable am I being? I'm a bit hurt that he didn't think about saving and in an illogical way feel like he values himself 10* more than me. There's no scope in the foreseeable future for me to spend an equivalent amount on myself.
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AIBU?
I abu and petty and having a sulk (gift related).
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MandatoryMongoose · 03/03/2014 13:57
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