So my day has gone from bad to worse.
To keep it brief, neighbours have a crap relationship. We hear her screaming at him all the time, constantly on and off. Have heard her scream that he has strangled her in the past (not at that time), but nothing while we have lived here to warrant calling the police.
He is usually very quiet, but you hear her screaming at him not to threaten her, swear infront of their child etc.
Today I heard her scream help and that he had punched her in the face. I went out to tell him to leave her alone. He wasnt happy about this and was quite aggressive towards me. He tried to push open the door when I tried to shut it and made threats towards dh.
He repeatedly said that he hadn't hit her and that she was lying. She didn't seem to have any marks on her face, but I only saw her briefly before she left and he stayed to have a go at me and dh.
He has since texted dh saying that he is really upset we have been sexist and assumed it is him who is the violent one. He has said he has been bullied by her and attacked by her and we have assumed its him because of stereotypes.
Dh simply said its done and asked him to delete his number. This made him angry and he said if we get involved in his business again he will attack dh and make sure we have to leave the area.
He kept saying that we had got it wrong and she was the violent bully, not him. He said you wouldn't call someone who had just been raped a rapist.
I don't know what to think now. In all fairness I have always heard her screaming at him, not the other way around. Why would she scream for help and lie that he has hit her though?
Did I do the wrong thing by going out there when she screamed for help? I feel like I have fucked things up for us now, I was just doing what I thought was right.
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Koothrapanties · 03/03/2014 13:33
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