Hi I have posted here because I couldn't see anything like this on the lone parents board and cold really d with the advice.
I have been with my husband for 15 years and we have 3 dcs 12, 10,8. We have got on perfectly well, sex life is crap - he is happy for once every 6 weeks, we never do anything as a couple. He is a great father and always puts them first which I feel guilty complaining about but I want some attention. Is it so bad to want to have a 'date night' once a year? I have talked and talked to him about all of our problems (there are many more) and he promises to change but never does. This has been going on for the last 9 years.
I want to leave him, I am 31 years old and want something more does that make me a horrible person? I am to scared to though. I worry my children would never forgive me and I would ruin there life. I spoke to my. Mum about the fact I wasn't happy and she told me to get a grip and I wouldn't find anything better, dh is lovely and treats me so well etc and if I did leave him she would never forgive me and her and dad would cut me out. I'm scared I won't have anyone to turn too.
I am also worried about the house. The mortgage is in his name and he works. I don't work I have always been the sahm. Where would I stand? I have asked him to leave and he laughed at me saying I had no rights on anything and that if I wanted to go the door was open but I was not taking my dcs. Can someone please help me with this.
Sorry for the ramble its 7.20am and I am already sat crying I just don't know what to do please help x
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Chocoholic36 · 03/03/2014 07:20
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