I've got a difficult situation today & don't know how to deal with it. Exh and I split last summer. Dcs (12 & 7) usually see him every weekend & once in the week.
They didn't go to his last night as they normally do as it's dds birthday and she had a party here at mine.
She wanted to have tea today with her dad, just the two of them. But yesterday she asked ds (7) if he wanted to go too. So he thinks they're all going.
Today she's changed her mind again and wants just the two of them to go. Ds is now upset because he feels left out and now won't get to see his dad this weekend.
Exh says he'll happily take them both out but dd (12) is upset because she now doesn't want her brother there. Exh won't make any decisions so it's down to me.
AIBU to tell dd that ds is going out with them too? Ive tried to offer alternatives to ds (like me & him go to mcdonalds) but he really wants to go with them.
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RollerCola · 02/03/2014 14:37
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