when i was pg alot of people told me i didnt need a c section, not drs no, they recomended it,due to previos 4th degree tear and birth injury, just aquantances etc
mums on the schol run etc
even though they do not know my medical history
i was told i wouldnt be able to bond sowell etc
but for me and my baby it was a wonderful experience
Calm in control nothing went wrong, he came out pink and crying at 37 weeks
He was placed on me while I was stiched up
Then we spend the whole entire rest of the day, he was born before 10am
Having a massive snuggle in bed skin to skin, the whole day, it was bliss
Really really lovely day
And a very very positive experience for us
in fact i still need to write to the hospital to thank them
anyway it just annoys me that noone ever warns you of the dangers of vaginal birth like i never even knew what a 4th degree tear is
let other things that can go wrong
yes neither way is without risk
i just feel all risks should be pointed out so women are actually making informed decsions
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to just want to say having a c section for me was a wonderful experience
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diamondlizard · 01/03/2014 17:15
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