Quick back story; I have been good friends with a group of couples, in particular one who is my 'best mate' locally and I was her chief bridesmaid. I feel lagging behind them all in terms of relationships after a bad one that wasted my late 20's and so they have in the meantime all got married and in the last year had babies. I moved out with my DP to an area a short drive away and since then I feel quite ostracised. I'm not great with babies as have older DSC but I feel offended that we rarely get invited over any more and also that my 'best friend' is so absorbed with her baby that she doesn't bother replying to messages most of the time. I know babies keep you busy but sometimes she doesn't reply at all. They tell me that none of them meet as much now but I can't help feeling a bit left out.
They are meant to be meeting this weekend and one of them had invited myself and DP last time we saw them individually but I haven't heard anything since then re actual arrangements. I have messaged 2 of them (Best mate by text a week ago and the one who invited us tonight) and no response. I've given up actually ringing BM as she doesn't answer and leaving voicemails is hit and miss as to getting a reply. Am I being paranoid or should I just move on and find friends who reflect my own interests more? My BM is totally unaware that myself and DP have nearly broken up in the past month and is quite scathing about my 'babies' (animals!) I just feel she is only interested in her baby now and a bit sad that she has no idea about my life these days when she was always a close friend before.
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theimposter · 27/02/2014 23:15
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