You tell their family!
I have just found out last night that my father had died in September 2013, he has been cremated and scattered.
Back story he adopted me, with my real mum when I was about 3 spend my childhood as my father until him and my mum split when I was 10yrs. He remarried when I was about 16, she was quite possessive and didnt really like him speaking to his family, he has two sisters.
Anyway I last saw him about ten years ago, but wrote every year or so, his sisters saw him every 6months. I would have liked to have seen him more, but wife made it quite uncomfortable.
So one of the sisters had her 60th birthday in sept and had invited my father and wife, but didnt get a response. She has been texting and ringing since then, and last week received a text back saying he had died, been cremated and been scattered in their special place, but wouldnt reveal where.
I feel robbed, devastated that I didnt get to say goodbye at his funeral, I have no closure, his sisters feel the same.
They were born again Christians, but this behaviour is anything but.
I am going to visit her today and try and find out a little more about it all.
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Greenkit · 25/02/2014 09:55
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