Hello, I'm not sure if I'm over reacting because I'm annoyed but this is what's happened..
Basically ex DP isn't a bad dad to DS but he certainly isn't a good one either.
He never even attempted to live with us when DS was born and we were together, that is partly why the relationship ended.
He happily goes 3-4 days at a time without seeing DS and isn't particularly in a rush to see him when he gets chance.
Today he has been busy helping a friend out and admittedly yes he will be tired out, he told he was very tired and won't be seeing DS today but will come in the morning. I had no problem with this at all.
I've just found out he has been out with friends so clearly he isn't THAT tired but simply cba to come see his son.
AIBU to ask whether I should be saving evidence of shitty things like this that he does incase I ever need to apply for full care of my child?
To me it just makes me worry this is going to continue for a long time when DS is an age where he is aware his dad isn't coming to see him and will hurt him.
Please don't have a go if I'm being daft I just feel sick of raising a child on my own then he just swans in when he likes and has no responsibilities
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To be mad at ex partner over not seeing DS
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MamaPingu · 24/02/2014 23:55
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