I'm friends with all my exes. Most is just a passing friendship but 2 are a lot more significant.
One I used to live with. We're in the same field and our paths cross a lot due to that. We sometimes message through Facebook. Not a lot - maybe every 3 months on average but sometimes he may pass comment on me looking good or something. Nothing too flirtatious.
The other one is the one I lost my virginity to 27 years ago. He was a crap boyfriend but he's always been a great friend. We've been friends such a long time. He's been there for my throughout some particularly traumatic times. As I have been for him. We don't have a huge amount of contact but we would both describe each other as our best friend nonetheless.
The reason for this post is that tonight my friend needed me and so I insisted he came over. Husband now not speaking to me.
I've known friend (ex) for 27 years. Husband not as long - only 8 years. Many of which have been flaky if I'm honest.
Please tell me honestly. Is it not ok to be friends with ex partners,
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fairyfuckwings · 24/02/2014 00:56
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