Background is that daughter and friend are in Y3. They both play with others but do seem to like each other the best, and call each other their "best friends" etc. We really get on with her parents.
Lately my daughter has ended up in tears a few times over friend's behaviour - some of it fairly typical stuff such as friend being "bossy" or running away and leaving her out. I have noticed the friend can be rather histrionic eg I have seen her go off and sulk, desperate for attention. Daughter says she often does this at school, and she expects daughter to run after her saying sorry.
But what is concerning me now is that daughter says friend sometimes pushes her to the floor and runs off laughing. Now daughter is very small for her age (in size six clothes) while friend is tall (size nine). If a 9-year-old was pushing a 6-year-old about we would call that bullying.
I don't know whether to (a) advise daughter to "tell" the teacher on her (b) discuss with teacher myself (c) discuss with friend's mum, who I'm sure would try to help, or (d) advise daughter not to play with her anymore. I'm leaning towards (a) as I prefer not to get too involved. What does MN say?
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parakeet · 23/02/2014 21:12
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