I'm posting in here as I know I will get honest responses, I genuinely do not know what is for the best.
My daughter is 3 and goes to nursery 3 days a week while I am in university. My friend's daughter attends the same nursery but is a year older.
My problem is the other girl is very domineering with my dd and demands she be her only friend, she gets upset if my dd plays with a different child any day. The girl is very bossy and is always telling my child what to do, or what she is doing is wrong and her way is right.
My dd is very quiet, pretty shy and seems to go along with this other girl. Every single time I go to collect my child she is with this other girl.
My daughter is one of 5 so is very used to not getting her own way, having to share, money being tight so she knows she can't always have everything she asks for.
My friends daughter is, by her mums admission, very spoiled. If my dd picks up a toy to play with, this girl demands it off her, saying she needs to have it. (This also happened on the couple of occasions I have looked after the girl in my own home or been at soft play with both of them)
But I have reached the end of my tether with a different aspect. Over the past few days my dd has started displaying the same demanding behaviour as this child. She has started 'whining' (only word I can use to describe the voice they now both use) saying she "wants" all these different things. The change in her personality is horrible.
I now want to take my dd out of this nursery. All my other children went to nursery as I think it is invaluable for them but I hate this change in my dd. I'm fortunate in that I have alternative childcare so would IBU to remove my child from this place?
I feel bad having these feelings towards another child but I feel she is impacting negatively on my daughter.
Any input is appreciated.
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Ghirly · 21/02/2014 04:08
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