I have a friend who is 33 next month and she is desperate for a baby. She has only ever had one real relationship which lasted two years when she was aged 26-28. Prior to that relationship she had just gone from bad man to bad man and has been doing it again since the relationship ended. Of our 'circle' she is the oldest but the only one to have not settled and had children.
She has previously joked about using a sperm donor but last week she admitted to me that she is now seriously considering it and has got an appointment at the end of the month with some clinic to start the process. I was quite shocked and told her not to rush into anything as she still has time to find a partner, fall in love, have a baby together etc (which is her dream scenario) but she took my reaction quite badly. She told me I'm not being a very good friend and what right have I got to tell her that she shouldn't do it. All I advised was that she think it through a bit more as it's a huge decision to make but she hadn't really spoken to me since.
BTW - I'm not against the use of sperm donors at all, I just think that at 33 she still has time to find her Mr Right?
....or do I need to apologise for not being more supportive?
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To tell her not to rush into this?
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Writerwannabe83 · 15/02/2014 20:51
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