When you have been cheated on or let down, or know lots of people who cheat?
I don't know if it's my problem. Maybe it is. I am sort of referring to the current thread/s, but it's more a general realisation really. I think a lot of people are very trusting- when their partner is te texting someone from work for example and the texts are extremely over friendly - lots of people say 'it's ok, men and women can be friends'.
Well yes they can I believe but only to a point. In my experience one person at least is enjoying a flirtation or hopes something more might happen in these instances.
Maybe it's my experience that has made me cynical, but I could not be so blindly trusting if my partner was 'just very good friends' with a woman from work.
Make of that what you will.
I'm sure sometimes its fine. But many times it won't be. I've known people who are happily married and their other halves would have no idea that they go out and look for a shag - anyone will do even. But the front is a happy family with kids.
How do you know your partner isn't that person? And how do you blindly trust? Honestly, I wish I could sometimes.
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Cat98 · 15/02/2014 18:50
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