Took dds aged 6 and 22 months to soft play tonight. They played together for a bit, then dd1 went off with some boys while I played with dd2. All fine. However, after ten mins or so dd1 and the boys kept running up to hide near us, calling dd2s name then running away. Dd2 then wanted to follow them so we did. Dd1 says to dd2: 'would you like to come on the red slide with me?' dd2 agrees and takes her hand. When they get there dd1 runs off and ignores dd2 calling her. Dd2 is upset, I distract and she's soon busy playing again.
Five mins later dd1 comes and asks dd2 to go on the slide again and runs off leaving her upset again. Dd2 is upset again, but then begins playing with a little boy. Dd1 comes over again and whispers to the boy and they run off together, again leaving dd2 upset. I asked dd1 not to keep pretending to dd2 that she's going to play with her then running off as it's unkind and was upsetting her. I said she's welcome to play with us and/or the boys but to let dd2 join in too. Again, they did the calling her name then running away thing.
On the way out I saw my friend and she asked if dd1 wanted to go and play at the weekend with her dd. I said she couldn't as I was unhappy withher behaviour ttowards dd2 as she effectively spoiled her evening for no reason. My friend said 'that's just what siblings do' and I'm being unnecessarily cruel to punish her for it. Aibu?
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PinkHardHat · 13/02/2014 22:03
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