Bizarre I know. My mother in law has bought the plot (grave) above my father in law for when she goes. Father in law dies a couple of years ago and was very muddled towards the end. She has never asked his permission to bury herself on top of him and he had never expressed this as a wish. The worst part is yet to come - They are divorced!! She divorced him 30 years ago and since then they shared the odd (yes defo) family holiday and maintained sporadic contact. In the end he had nobody else to look after him so she did until he went into a home. I suppose they sort of got back together towards the end. The thing is she told me she can bury herself in there as she is family but she's not is she? she's his exwife. The other thing which gnarls at us all is that she drove him mental when he was alive and he'd often say she was controlling and he wanted her to bugger off, although there was a sort of dysfunctional love there. So what are the thoughts on this? Can she really just do that? (I imagine him swearing his head off down there saying he can't get any peace from her even when he's 6ft under and he'd be right!)
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appletarts · 12/02/2014 18:50
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