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AIBU to ask you all to tell me a secret

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deburca Tue 11-Feb-14 18:44:56

Ill go first! I quite fancy my friends gay brother! lol

TheCatThatSmiled Tue 11-Feb-14 18:49:09

I got into huge trouble for stealing something from my Granny.

But it wasn't me. It was my sister. To this day she would deny it. I've never told a soul.

oldfashionedgirl Tue 11-Feb-14 18:51:44

I have a huge crush on a man who doesn't know I exist. sad

deburca Tue 11-Feb-14 18:52:02

what age were you both? i couldnt keep quiet about something like that - I hate being blamed for something I havent done.

anyone else out there want to bare your soul?

deburca Tue 11-Feb-14 18:54:05

Ah old u sure? perhaps he could be shy and afraid to approach you?

HadABadDay2014 Tue 11-Feb-14 18:54:37

Sometimes when I am very tired I change the clocks so the DC go to bed earlier.

GhostsInSnow Tue 11-Feb-14 18:55:16

There is a HUGE thread with just what you are looking for here OP grin

oldfashionedgirl Tue 11-Feb-14 18:55:30

Maybe but men in general don't notice me! He is quiet and I am shy so I doubt it will ever move on from a one sided crush.

missmapp Tue 11-Feb-14 18:55:38

My friend at work is pregnant . I am so excited, but she wants to wait til after 12 wk scan, so no one else knows- except you lot!!

headlesslambrini Tue 11-Feb-14 18:56:21

I hide all the decent biscuits and keep them for myself.

DameFanny Tue 11-Feb-14 18:57:39

I haven't had a period since November. I've POAS'd and it isn't that, but I keep forgetting to go to the Dr.

deburca Tue 11-Feb-14 18:57:51

its more secrets than gossip though honey - looks good though, will defo look into it! lol

GertyD Tue 11-Feb-14 18:59:10

I know my bosses password to her work login. I could look at everything; emails, personnel things, reports, accounts etc. She accidentally typed it in the wrong bit, but I pretended to not see, and looked the other way. I have never looked though. I just can't bring myself to. I am usually the nosiest bugger going. I think there is something wrong with me shock

SweetPeaPods Tue 11-Feb-14 18:59:39

I'm 5 weeks pg with dc2 and only DH and you lot know. It's killing me keeping it quiet!

ThoughSheBeButLittle Tue 11-Feb-14 19:00:37

My DHs friend was on dating sites trying to find fuckbuddies whilst he and his wife were ttc. I saw a message he sent one of my friends and recognised his pic.

I don't know his wife well and they live a long way away so I didn't feel I could speak to her directly so I got DH to say we'd seen it. He made out it was a mate setting him up but I think he's a total liar.

OneSecret Tue 11-Feb-14 19:03:30


Everyone thinks Iead a very glamourous life. I have a very interesting job, a lovely home and appear to be bubbly vibrant and happy go lucky

In truth I am unbelievably lonely, and cry myself to sleep most nights. Today is the 5th day in a row where I haven't talked to another human being. When I go to work I am sparkling and fake happy

I think I am probably depressed, but wouldn't dare have that put on my medical records as could impact me getting future employment. My industry demands happiness

If it weren't for the fact that my parents would get lumbered with paperwork and chaos should anything happen to me, I would have done it myself years ago. And yet there is actually nothing wrong with my life. I am very blessed

Wow. That was long

CheesyBadger Tue 11-Feb-14 19:04:33

I once pooed in the garden (very young!)

Innogen Tue 11-Feb-14 19:04:57

I didn't wear knickers today.

bzoo Tue 11-Feb-14 19:07:51

OneSecret. That sounds tough. Always a friendly ear here if you need/want to talk smile

YouAreMyFavouriteWasteOfTime Tue 11-Feb-14 19:08:14

I am 8 weeks pregnant. Only dp and I know. I am old and some people have said quite rude things about me being too old. I am resolved not to tell them smugly but just be normal.

deburca Tue 11-Feb-14 19:10:34

onesecret you dont have to divulge everything on an application form jobwise, ie you will find most likely that your GP will write "virus" for a reason if you are ill from work. You sound very sad and I wish you could speak to some in rl - depression doesnt just happen to people with perceived "real problems".

MichaelaS Tue 11-Feb-14 19:11:56

I have been mentally writing, effectively, a slash fiction story. It started off as a bit of a "what if" random thought and is getting out of hand. It has a fairly long plot and background characters drawn from people I used to know years ago. I have told NOONE in real life. I considered writing it down somewhere anonymous but I think my DH would notice I was writing something and I don't think he'd be best pleased at the content!

deburca Tue 11-Feb-14 19:12:49

My laptop is dying and i cant find the charger!!!!!

ThePearShapedToad Tue 11-Feb-14 19:13:06

After years and years and years of telling everyone LOUDLY that I will never want a child, couldn't bear the idea of having such a thing growing inside me, can't understand why people want them.....

I think my biological clock has finally kicked in blush

bodygoingsouth Tue 11-Feb-14 19:17:01

Onesecret go to your GP and get help. they won't record it as such if you don't want them to. please post on other boards for help/advice. you are not alone on mumsnet.

I sometimes have a sneaky glass of wine at a nice local pub I know all by myself for 10 mins of peace from our mad family.

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